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The'1' Life Path: The Leader
The 1 Life Path is someone who is self-motivated, independent, a hard worker. They have a fierce competitive desire to be the best, and almost always succeed. Unfortunately, they never believe they’re as good as they really are, because of what I call their 'inner bully.' This is the nonstop voice of criticism in their head, telling them they’re not good enough. Despite all of their achievements, this voice demands: 'What's wrong with you? What are you doing with your life?' They are extremely critical of themselves, and expect others to live up to their incredibly high standards. If they are disappointed, they are quick to judge.
The Life Path 1 can get involved with all kinds of people and business schemes—even those that prove disastrous—and walk away unscathed, knowing exactly who they are. Jack Nicholson comes to mind because as often as we hear that 'Bad Boy Jack' has done something wrong, everyone continues to love and forgive him. The 1’s need forindividuality is enormous. They are pioneers, innovators, unique, and capable of great success.
The 1 Life Paths are an asset to other numbers because these are the people who will push you to strive for excellence as well. You are very likely to want to achieve your own goals because it is so inspiring to watch their ceaseless quest for perfection. It is difficult for 1s to ask for help because they want to handle the problem their own way. When the 1 Life Path makes up their mind on how they are going to take care of a situation, it’s nearly impossible to talk them out of it. This means that occasionally the 1 will fall on their face. If you are a 1, try to listen to others from time to time. Others may see the 1 Life Path as egotistical or domineering but that’s not really where the 1 is coming from. The 1 is just clear on who they are and strong when it comes to offering an opinion. If a 1 feels they are doing well, you will know it by the look of joy on their face.
Those with a 1 Life Path can be kind and generous, but if they feel that their partners are being unfaithful or have deceived them in love or business, they can be ruthless. The 1 vibration needs to be managing in some way—if not running the entire company! They make great entrepreneurs and inventors because of their self-motivation. They are also known for having healing hands, so massage therapy, reflexology, and acupuncture are fields in which they excel. Other fulfilling occupations include: writer, restaurant owner, store owner, trial lawyer, military officer, farmer, or anything that calls for independent action and decision-making. When choosing a career, the 1 Life Path must ask the question: 'What is it I’ve always wanted to be?' Once they answer that question and go after their dreams, they are unstoppable. They have tremendous focus, and they always become the very best at whatever they do.
The world is their oyster. At the same time, the 1 vibration is always shooting to be number one, and if they do a great job overall but just one thing goes wrong, they will beat themselves up over it. They always feel like time is moving way too fast. The 1s need to ease up and encourage themselves instead of being too self-critical. Note that if you’re the boss to a 1 Life Path, the worst thing you can do is to stand over their shoulder, watching them work. They have a rebellious streak, and will react badly if they feel you don’t have faith in them. Instead, you must let them know you trust them to do an amazing job—and then leave them alone. If you handle them in this way, they’ll give you magic. Another great activity for the 1 is to watch sports, races, game shows—anything where people are winning. Dancing is a great release for the 1 Life Path. It helps them get out of their heads and relax. Yoga is a popular meditation technique and will also have a soothing effect. source. Glynis McCants
1 VIBRATION: REALTIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 1, 5, and 7
Compatible Numbers: 2, 3, and 9
Challenge Numbers: 4 and 6
Neutral Numbers: 8
The'2' Life Path: The Mediator
This 2 Life Path is someone who is seeking harmony in life. They are here to love others and to be loved in return. Music has an especially soothing effect on them; they are easy-going; if you want someone who is affectionate, you should seek a 2 Life Path Number because they do like hugs and kisses. They need and give lots of love and affection. Unless all the other numbers in their chart discourage giving such absolute love, it is their natural way.
The 2s are mediators, they loathe conflict, and they will do whatever it takes to avoid it. If there are people in their lives who are fighting, they’ll try to fix it. 2s also tend to be psychic, and they will have dreams that come true. They also experience déjà vu. It’s never a problem for them to follow, a 2 doesn’t have to be the leader. Because of their natural psychic ability, they tend to be good at Astrology, Numerology, Tarot reading, Tea leaf reading, and the I Ching. They make good counsellors and social workers. These people have concern for others, enjoy their company, and don’t like to be alone. They crave unconditional love, and make great parents, the kind who tend to be friends to their children.
The 2 does not need the spotlight. They’ll do the job. As a matter of fact, they are the people who would donate to a charity in secret. They would just do it out of the kindness of their heart. They need to bring people together and they’re the ones to see when looking for anything from a dentist to a carpenter. They know everyone and love to help out. The only time 2s get angry is if they feel pushed or threatened. Otherwise, they’re extremely good-natured. If you look into a 2’s eyes, you can just see what good, kind people they are. That is just where they come from. The flip side of a 2 is that now and then you might meet a 2 who feels they do everything for everybody and they feel drained. Yet, if you know them personally, you may feel they are giving themselves far too much credit. I think it’s important, when it comes to a 2, to keep in mind that they are here to love others and to be loved in return. If you work with them, they will definitely come through for you. The 2 has to be careful not to take on the problems of the people they love. My analogy for the 2 is that if they saw someone fall in a well and cry for help, the 2 would jump in and ask, 'What's wrong?' only to look up and say, 'Oh my goodness, now we’re both in here!'
So it is important for the 2 to have empathy, but to, nevertheless, be able to stand back and say: 'Okay, I’m sorry that happened, but it’s still your problem. I’ll help as much as I can, but I am not going to get in it with you.' The 2 has to be careful not to place themselves completely at another’s disposal, because eventually they will get angry and resentful. They often worry about what others think of them; here’s a reminder for all of us, but especially the 2: 'What people think of me is none of my business.'
When the 2 is surrounded by emotional vampires who are taking all of their energy—it’s okay for them to just walk away. Otherwise, what they don’t deal with mentally will eventually attack them physically, and that’s why a 2 Life Path can wind up with health problems. Easy-going as they usually are, when they get upset, it is like a volcano erupting. When this emotional outburst is over, they will feel very drained, because anger is so toxic to the very essence of who they are. Because of this, 2s must be careful with whom they spend their time.source. Glynis McCants
2 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 2, 4, and 8
Compatible Numbers: 1, 3, 6, and 9
Challenge Numbers: 5 and 7
The'3' Life Path: The Communicator
When Shakespeare wrote that'll the world’s a stage,' he was talking like a 3. When on track, the 3 Life Path is always performing or taking centre stage in some way. The 3s love creativity, communication, and connecting with people. They are often the entertainers of the world. They love being listened to, so you’ll often find them on the phone. Writing is also a big deal to the 3, as it’s another form of communication. Anything having to do with the written word is appealing to this vibration. In personal relationships, 3s can also be very romantic. They are fiercely loyal, and they never truly get over their past relationships. Even when the relationship ends, for a 3 it’s never quite over.
When the 3 Life Paths aren’t expressing themselves creatively, they will manifest some sort of drama. They sometimes embellish what’s going on to make their lives seem more interesting. Watch a child who’s a 3 at their storytelling and you’ll notice they always exaggerate. The same can be said for 3 vibration adults! If they use this tendency in a positive way, channelling it into motivational speaking, singing, or acting, they can keep it healthy. The 3 Life Path needs people. When they go home to check their messages and there are none, they can feel a real sense of rejection. In relationships, 3 Life Paths don’t always see the situation for what it really is until they get burned. Since 3s are natural counsellors who see the potential in others, they often pick a partner who is a 'patient,' with the thought that they can save that person. This tendency often leads them into depression. Everything is going great one minute and the next, BOOM! The 3 crash-lands.
The 3 Life Paths have to guard against extreme highs and lows. They must learn to control their emotions, and look for the middle ground. A 3 Life Path makes an excellent salesperson. If a 3 believes in something, by the time he or she is through with you, you will believe in it too. The 3s make great entertainers, models, actors, designers, musicians, singers, comedians, and any type of performer. They also shine in the worlds of cosmetology, hairdressing, fashion, and jewellery design. The reason is simple: They want the world to look better. They take a look at someone and say, 'How can I make that person better-looking and special?' These people are natural clowns. People who come to my mind are Bill Cosby, Groucho Marx, and Tracey Ullman. These are the people who want to enjoy life, and never quite grow up.
The creative 3 vibration doesn’t do well with the standard nine-to-five job, and doesn’t like working under others. Their minds move very quickly and when someone is slow thinking, it will frustrate the 3. At the same time, the 3 must guard against becoming too domineering when they are in charge. If they are in a dead-end job or lifestyle, they can get themselves caught in some pretty sticky situations that may be hard to get out of. They have to use their creative gifts. They can seem manic-depressive, experiencing intense mood swings if they’re not using their talents.
A 3 Life Path must be careful with whom they spend their time. They are warm and giving by nature and tend to attract world-class takers. If 3s find that they are always the giver in a relationship and there is no reciprocation, it will lead to bitterness. They must learn to walk away from relationships that are unbalanced in this way. Their strength of mind and sharp wit often put them ahead of the crowd. When the 3 Life Path is living on the positive side of its vibration, the 3 is clever, entertaining, and makes for great company. They are a joy to be around. The 3s are known for their trademark smile, bright eyes, and pleasant-sounding voice. If they are living on the negative side of the vibration, they can spread gossip and have a very difficult time keeping a secret. If you are a 3, learning to bite your tongue would be wise.
One of the gifts a 3 does possess is to take an adverse condition and flip it around to the benefit of themselves and others. The 3s learn from dversity, intuitively understanding that sometimes you have to go through the negative to get to the positive. The 3 Life Path uses that fine sense of humour to get through the bad days. Laughter is what saves them. If you are a 3 Life Path and you are reading this thinking, Wow, I’m not like that, I don’t feel like I can express myself at all, this automatically tells me that you have scars from your original family; that your parents, no matter how caring, did not give you that round of applause that you so needed as a child. I strongly recommend that you go to chapter 4 and do the affirmations for the number 3. It is important for you to heal yourself so that you can be the person you were born to be. Trust that you can find your way to effortless self-expression, and you will. It’s never too late!source. Glynis McCants
3 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 3, 6, and 9
Compatible Numbers: 1, 2, and 5
Challenge Numbers: 4, 7, and 8
The'4' Life Path: The Teacher
The 4 Life Path is a very cerebral, intelligent number. The 4s are seekers of knowledge and born teachers. They often wear glasses, and I think of them as 'human computers'—the fact that Bill Gates is a 4 Life Path is no surprise. They are into the logic in life—A plus B must equal C.
We learn from 4s. If I said it’s a beautiful day with a blue sky, a 4 might add, 'Yeah, but do you see that black cloud?' The 4 is not trying to ruin my day; they just want me to see the situation from all sides. I call this the 'Spock mentality.' They are always seeking truth. While they sometimes come off as cynical, what they are really trying to do is give you information that they think will help you. You’ve got to take them with good humour, because they really don’t mean you any harm. They are actually trying to make your life easier.
The 4 is the first to say,'I don’t want to argue'—and yet they always wind up in arguments! Why? I believe it’s because they are so honest and they are very direct. They don’t often cushion the blow. The 4 can intuitively fix things and often don’t quite know how they do it. Children with this vibration can solve puzzles that would stymie most adults. I knew a 4 Life Path eight-year-old girl who figured out how to adjust the broken door on the family dryer with a safety pin, so it would run until the repairman got there. Young 4s seem wise beyond their years.
The 4 needs lots of positive affirmation and is afraid of criticism. This can mean that when they have a great idea, it often lives and dies in their head because they’re reluctant to act on it. They overprocess, saying to themselves, 'If I can’t do it perfectly, I don’t want to do it at all.' A lot of their dreams are never achieved as a result. The 4 vibration needs to remember to follow the old Nike slogan: 'Just do it.' The home is very important to the 4. They crave the security it brings, and always make an effort to pay their bills on time to protect their haven, the place where they can relax and feel they are safe. This need for stability can backfire, though. The 4 might stay in a bad relationship, because they dislike change of any kind and don’t want to leave what feels like security. All of us would do well to keep a to-do list, but it is absolutely essential for a 4. Their minds are filled with so many different thoughts that unless they keep a list, it’s easy to let a couple of things slide by. Once the thoughts are put on paper, the 4s can set their minds at ease and avoid having too much going on in their very busy brains. Nature’s beauty has a calming effect on the 4.
They often like to hike and camp; they tend to be very good at gardening and enjoy working in the backyard. Growing their own food, or making a beautiful garden with flowers they can be proud of, is a very healthy outlet, for the 4 likes to move slowly and deliberately. They don’t want to have anyone pushing them into a situation they don’t feel ready for. This Vibration likes to have a plan and they want their lives to be orderly. If you are involved with a male 4, please note that he definitely wants to be a provider. He needs security for himself, so it makes sense for him to take care of others when he can. If he cannot, depression is sure to follow. You may find that you have no idea what your 4 vibration sweetheart is thinking, because he is so often inside his own head. The 4 Life Path woman is strong. She’s sometimes taken to be a bit 'masculine' in the sense that she takes care of everything. She is very responsible, and may be the family breadwinner. She will wear makeup and dress beautifully, but she has no problem getting down and dirty when she needs to.
A word of caution for the 4: With a mind that’s always running at full speed, the temptation arises to drown your thoughts in alcohol. You have so much going on up there and just want to relax. The 4 vibration must find healthy, positive outlets to help free yourselves from your own overactive minds. Something I often suggest to my clients, especially the 4, is keeping a journal. You can write your thoughts out and purge whatever is troubling you, rather than trying to drown it with an addiction. There’s a very grounded quality to the 4. The average 4 is not obsessed with being filthy rich; they just want to make sure they have enough for the future to feel secure. Because of their desire to protect, you will find 4s in firefighting and police work. They are often in some form of construction. They can be architects, builders, or landscapers—any job that has to do with products of the earth. The 4 likes things that are tangible and solid. Building something that can shelter and bring comfort to others appeals to them.
Investing in real estate is a good choice for this vibration. Honesty is crucial to the 4, especially in relationships. When 4s love, they are very sincere about it. If they discover they’ve been betrayed, they can lose their trust, making it very hard for them to love again. The other type of 4 will concentrate so much on their work and plans for the future, they won’t notice the relationship falling apart and will be shocked and devastated when it ends.
In general, the 4 absorbs everything about their surroundings. They see everything, and because of the way they process information, they need their peace and quiet. They have this sensible, traditional, well-behaved way about them. They don’t like people who are overly flashy or gregarious. If someone is too loud or obnoxious, they will get offended. The 4 is very selective in their friendships and they don’t need a lot of people in their lives. There is a loner quality to the 4, similar to that of the 7. It is not uncommon for a 4 to have panic attacks. They want the situation they’re in to be in absolutely perfect order. Scientists, however, tell us that the natural state of the universe is chaos! They need to embrace this fact and rest assured that things will sort themselves out in the end. Remembering this can make a 4 feel better immediately. A final thought on the 4 Life Path. The 4 does not like to look naive in any situation. When they learn a skill, they are inclined to become expert at it —that’s why 4s make such amazing teachers. So if there’s a 4 out there working for someone else and thinking, Boy, I do this better than my boss, then I suggest you start teaching it to other people. You’ll make your own money, and finally find true fulfilment.source. Glynis McCants
4 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 2, 4, and 8
Compatible Numbers: 6 and 7
Challenge Numbers: 1, 3, 5, and 9
The'5' Life Path: The Adventurer
The 5 Life Path loves freedom, fun, and adventure. They love variety; they might take a different route to work each day because they get bored so easily. This vibration needs constant stimulation. They like passion. Escape is the name of the 5’s game; of all the Life Paths, 5s are the most likely to escape through sex, food, drugs, alcohol, travel, or overwork. The average 5 Life Path male does not get married early, and if they do, they often get married more than once. The first marriage is often short-lived because they don’t want to feel tied down. They need to feel it’s their world, and if a woman holds on too tightly or is too needy, they feel smothered. This is also true for the 5 Life Path woman. She cannot stand a man who clings to her. The woman’s message is very simple: 'Do not control me.' If you give your 5 sweetheart plenty of space he or she will almost always come back to you.
This Life Path is all about the senses. Things must taste just right, smell good, look pretty, and feel pleasing, or they’re not happy. This goes for their appearance as well: The 5 likes to look attractive. In Numerology, 3s and 5s are similar in that they both like to look 'performance ready'—hair, clothes, and makeup just perfect.
The 5s are also our natural detectives. They love to find out what happened, to be in the know. If they think someone is being dishonest, they’ll do the research to find out the truth. They don’t like feeling that they’re in the dark. These people are the celebrators of life. The typical 5 loves Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, or any holiday they can find on the calendar. They like to make every occasion beautiful and exciting. They’re also natural givers, and would rather give the perfect gift than receive it. I often say that if a 5 received a thank-you note, the 5 would write a thank you for the thank you! The 5s are also known for their great penmanship and are experts at leaving messages on your answering machine that make you want to call them back. They give just enough information to pique your curiosity.
When it comes to career, 5s make good photojournalists, pilots, flight attendants, travel agents, tour guides, cruise directors—anything to dowith travel. I doubt there’s a 5 on this planet who wouldn’t enter a drawing for a free plane ticket. They’re always making plans to go to Europe or somewhere tropical and exciting. It is important that the 5s venture out and live their quest, be it taking a career they love or traveling all over the world. If they aren’t making use of their energy and drive, life can easily turn into a soap opera. This false drama can lead to depression and a martyr complex. If you know a 5 Life Path who feels their life is not their own, you already know that they can become champion complainers. The adventuresome 5 is often entrepreneurial and doesn’t like to be subject to someone else’s authority. Since 5s have a natural gift for entertaining, you’ll often find them in the hospitality industry.
A good profession for the 5 is wedding planning and decorating. At the same time, there’s a wild side to the 5, because they would rather be dead than bored. It’s no surprise that you’ll often find 5s in the charts of rock stars, strippers, and casino owners. I’ve yet to meet a 5 whose life was not fascinating and who didn’t have more than enough stories for just one lifetime. The 5s are also gamblers. If not risking actual money at the table, they are taking chances in life. They are compassionate. Any 5 who sees a homeless man wants to know his story. When they see an injustice, they can’t help but be affected by it even if it has nothing to do with them personally. A lot of 5s escape in books. When they read books, they live vicariously through them. Of course, that can be a safe and healthy form of escape. I have also found that 5s make wonderful fiction writers because their imagination is so vivid.
When you pick up a book written by a 5 Life Path, you will fall into this imaginary world that they have created, and when the story is over, you will be very eager for their next novel. J. K.Rowling, the author of the Harry Potter novel series, is a 5 Life Path—need I say more? As you can see, escape is the name of their game. If you yell at a 5, the 5 will not listen. A 5 will tune you out. They might shake their head and nod agreeably, but truthfully, they have mentally left the building. The 5 is restless and has to keep moving. They are quick to jump in and out of relationships, and can be lured away from their partners by the promise of more passion and sex elsewhere. I caution my clients to beware of letting go of a healthy relationship too soon; often 5s will leave a marriage and years later realize it was the best relationship they’d ever had. People with this Life Path have to live their lives and have fun and experience the variety life has to offer. If you’re involved with a 5, my advice is to avoid the temptation to cling too tightly. If your 5 is in a job that requires that he or she has to leave you from time to time, just let go. You don’t need to feel threatened; just trust that you are loved. And when your 5 comes back, you’ll have more love and appreciation than ever before.source. Glynis McCants
5 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 1, 5, and 7
Compatible Numbers: 3 and 9
Challenge Numbers: 2, 4, and 6
Neutral Numbers: 8
The'6' Life Path: The Nurturer
The 6 Life Path is the natural parent, viewing others from a paternal or maternal point of view. A 6 Life Path goes along with love and marriage like the proverbial 'horse and carriage.' There is a nurturing quality to the 6. If the 6 can’t have children, chances are they’ll teach schoolchildren—or run a big business and treat their employees like children! If a 6 Life Path woman divorces, she often throws herself into the lives of her children and has difficulty ever seeing them as grownups. In her mind, her son or daughter will be a child forever. Of course, now and again I’ll meet a 6 man who says he has no desire for children. When I hear this, I automatically ask him if he has any pets. That’s when he’ll light up like a proud parent, and tell me all about his cat, dog, horse, etc. So I suggest to you 6s out there who aren’t going to be the parent of a child to find a pet to love, hold, anhug. You won’t believe the difference it will make in your life. In terms of romantic relationships, it comes as no surprise that 6 women, especially those who don’t have children of their own, tend to attract men who act like little boys. The 6 man, on the other hand, attracts women who are damsels in distress. But even above marriage, domestic tranquillity is paramount to the 6. If they are with a partner who displays anger or generally causes a lot of unpleasantness—especially around the children—they usually decide they’d rather be alone than keep that partner around.
A 6 Life Path must find ways to use their creative energies. Art, music, and poetry are natural avenues to take. If 6s don’t keep busy, they can get caught up in petty things—such as gossiping and redecorating the home over and over again—just because they’re bored. Because 6s so believe in a strong family unit, if happily married, they would rather spend time with their partners than with friends. If the 6 has not made the choice to have a family, then the workplace is the home, and his employees and co-workers become the family. The 6 Life Path will provide the same kind of nurturing presence at the office or in a home environment. These are magnetic people.
They tend to be physically attractive, but it’s more than that—there’s a force about them that’s hard to ignore. The 6 needs to manage or own their own company. They find it hard to work for other people. Thoughts and words are powerful for all Life Paths, but they can be especially problematic for the 6. As someone who is predisposed to be a parent, a 6 is concerned with making sure the future is going to be taken care of. Often, this means a 6 woman will assure herself that, if necessary, she would be able to make it on her own. When a married woman starts to say this to herself, the next thing you know she’s divorced. And yes, she can take care of business and make it, but she’s suddenly alone when she didn’t need to be. Thoughts are very powerful and will attract whatever we believe we are going to get, so I tell 6s not to say this kind of thing. As Job lamented in the Bible: 'The thing I greatly feared has come upon me.' This is something I see over and over. One 6 client told me that every man she had been involved with had cheated on her. Well, just in knowing she thought about this regularly, I knew she was attracting men who would heat on her. It wasn’t something she was choosing consciously, but it was a direct result of having this limited belief.
The 6 needs harmony. Unfortunately, they often forget that they must deal with their own unhappiness before they try to fix life for others. When the 6 is in trouble, they just need to speak up and say what they’re feeling when they’re feeling it. The 6’s home is everything. They are the natural interior decorators, and like to rearrange their homes and make them just right. If they are ever in a position where they have to live in somebody else’s house, they are unfulfilled. In my observations of 6 vibration women, time and again their keen sense of smell comes up in conversation. Oftentimes they can’t wear perfume because it’s overwhelming to them. They tend to be particular about the scents and lotions they use and those used by the people around them. If someone is smoking in a building, the 6 can smell it across the hall. One client who took a daily fitness walk on a certain street noticed an unbearable odour. It got to the point where she had to change her route to avoid the general area. Two months later the police discovered a dead body in the trunk of a car on that block—the 6 had been able to smell the decomposing body just two days after the murder. When you have a 6-vibration child, you may find that they act as if he or she is the parent, in charge of you. Don’t take it personally; just work with these children and provide ways for them to use their nurturing qualities, such as getting a pet to take care of. Life Path 6 children may not get the memo on the fact that you are older and wiser, but they are dynamic and destined to do something great if you are supportive of them. A perfect day for a 6 would be if the people in their life got on their knees and said, 'I'm not worthy.' Okay, maybe not quite that dramatic, but it’s true that 6s don’t take criticism well. If you have a 6 in your life, you must find a way to compliment them prior to offering constructive criticism. If the 6 is a child, you might say something like,'Gee, your room looks really good. You’ve kept it clean and I’m really proud of you.' Only then can you go on to the objective. If math is the problem, say: 'Could you please work on your math a little bit harder?' Because if you have praised the child first, he’ll be more open to listening—and hearing—what you have to say. (Actually, I would recommend this technique for all numbers.) There are some numbers that verbally come right out with the negative that they are feeling and it hurts people. I know that’s rarely deliberate. I really think most of us are trying to help each other, and defensiveness is what gets in the way of true communication. If you put that compliment first, it is the way to communicate because then others can really hear you. When it comes to friendship, 6s tend to be loyal and trustworthy; if you confide in them they will keep your secrets. The only time the 6 will betray your trust is if they are living on the negative side of the number. The upside is that if a 6 does betray your trust, and is confronted, they will feel worse than you do. The 6 will continue to ask for forgiveness until you decide to let him or her back into your life. If you choose not to forgive, the 6 will always carry the pain of having let you down. Betrayal is that contrary to the essence of the 6 Life Path. So to the 6 Life Path I would say to be careful not to give away confidential information, as the act will have a boomerang effect on you. After all, as a 6 Life Path you very much need to have people respect your privacy—confidentiality means a great deal to you. Remember The Golden Rule and do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Occupations that work for the 6 include interior decorator, real estate agent, guidance counsellor, academic adviser, and greeting card designer. They also excel as hair and makeup artists. Many 6s are creatively gifted, and if that’s true for you, you should rejoice and be sure to work withit. We find many 6s acting and making music, whether by playing an instrument or singing.There is only so much room a person can give in a relationship—and the 6 Life Path often tries to push that limit by giving too much. The result is that the 6 puts people on a pedestal.Unfortunately, anyone who’s up on a pedestal is bound to fall at one time or another. Next thing you know, 6s feel betrayed and will often begin to see themselves as martyrs. One of the great talents of the 6 is the ability to make others feel very guilty. Once the 6 believes they are carrying most of the burden in a relationship, they’ll break it off abruptly—and leave their partner wondering what went wrong. For this reason 6s can’t wait too long before they speak up. I would caution the 6 to keep communication open before things go terribly wrong. The sudden anger you can display will come as a huge surprise to the recipient, and often can mean the downfall of the relationship. When a 6 is unhappy, no one in the room is happy. Everyone around the table feels a little bit sick as they eat the turkey that the unhappy 6 just cooked.
What is interesting about a 6 is that people usually sense a compassionate personality, but if the 6 decides they do not like you, or if they’re not comfortable in a setting, they can put up an air that is so cold, it will chill the most thick-skinned person. This is the kind of power a 6 has. And the 6 always has an opinion. A 6 Life Path believes that 'if you want something done, you have to do it yourself.' They don’t just do their own job, but also try to do everyone else’s! The 6 vibrations feel they are working too hard, and yet that hard work makes them feel indispensable. They have to learn to step back and trust that people can do their own jobs and that the work will get done. Otherwise their intense efforts can backfire, with others feeling resentful. So what I say is, 'Relax, 6 Life Path, you are a powerful number and you don’t
have to try so hard.'source. Glynis McCants
6 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 3, 6, and 9
Compatible Numbers: 2, 4, and 8
Challenge Numbers: 1, 5, and 7
The'7' Life Path: The Faith Seeker
The 7 Life Path is here to learn to have faith. If 7s don’t have faith in their lives, they can’t truly be happy. This doesn’t necessarily mean they’re going to be into organized religion—faith comes in different packages. But there is undeniably a spiritual energy surrounding the 7. If you have a 7 child, you’ll notice when he or she sleeps that you seem to be looking at an angel. Luckily for those of us with 7s in our lives, they often continue to exude that beautiful spirit even when they become adults. I honestly believe there are two kinds of people on our planet: those who thank God, and those who think they’re God. This is true for the 7 more than any other number. The 7 needs a strong spiritual base. If the 7s don’t believe in a higher power, or if they question the meaning of life, they’ll be exhausting to have around. They will also try to escape: When they’re off track, 7s, like the 5s, are drawn to drugs, alcohol, sex, travel, and overwork.
I often make the joke that 7s are just visiting the planet, because they don’t seem to be from here. I think 7s are here observing humans, not quite sure what makes us tick. As a matter of fact, in any given year you’ll find a surprising number of Oscar-nominated directors—those who turn life into art —who are 7 Life Paths. The 7 is also a great number for philosophers. It’s no accident that Leonard Nimoy, who played Spock in Star Trek, is a 7 Life Path. The number 7 is considered a magic number in many cultures, both ancient and modern. People who are 7s tend to have a natural psychic ability, and it’s important for them to take alone time to regroup. The ability to see beyond the normal range can be a burden, but meditation can help the 7 use this ability wisely.
The 7’s biggest spiritual breakthroughs usually come when they are by themselves, and alone with nature. AsPythagoras said, 'Those who desire wisdom should look for it in solitude.'In the Hebrew Bible—or the Old Testament—the scripture tells us that on the seventh day God rested. Mankind was then enjoined to rest on the seventh day as well. The Orthodox Jews keep very closely to this tradition—not even lighting a fire on the Sabbath. In healthy, loving relationships, the 7 tends to be completely loyal, honest, and direct. In spite of this, Life Path 7s sometimes have trouble saying, 'I love you,' or praising their partner. This comes from a fear that their loved ones might realize they’re too good for them and leave. The irony is that if the person does leave it’s often because of feeling undervalued and neglected. On the other hand, it’s very obvious when the 7 doesn’t like you because they’ll tell you—and it’s not a fun experience, since 7s have lethal tongues. They also have what I call a mental steel door. If 7s decide they don’t want you in their lives, they’ll shut that door and that’ll be the end of the relationship.
The 7 loves natural beauty. Rivers, oceans, lakes—anything connected to water helps the 7 get out of his own head. This is important, since 7s tend to think too much. They also love mountains, the snow, flowers, plants, and green grass. They have a wonderful affinity for the simple things. Since they’re not always good at understanding people’s needs and wants, they often crave the unconditional love that comes from having pets. The 7 is a very bright, intelligent, and intense number. Much like the Life Path 4, the 7 will overanalyse every situation. They’ll walk into a room and see all of the details right away. (As a result, 7s tend to be very good writers.)
They also become computer experts and scientists—anything involving technical work. Life Path 7s are good at discovering things. It would not be surprising if a 7 vibration finds the cure for AIDS. They’re often able to solve difficult problems, but they may not know where the answer came from. I believe this is a result of the fact that 7s living on the positive side of their numbers are more closely linked with God than all the other Life Path Numbers.
Interestingly, 7s like to have an air of secrecy and will do anything to keep the mystery going. The more you pry or ask questions, the more the7 shuts down. They are exclusive. Even in a marriage it’s not uncommon for a 7 to sleep in a separate bed or even in a separate room. This is meant as no offense to the spouse, the 7s just need their own space. If you are in a relationship with a 7, don’t take it personally when your partner becomes very quiet. The 7 needs time to assess and dissect all those thoughts and ideas. The 7 vibrations need to work hard too. Work is their passion, and they’ll throw themselves into it, because they feel like they can be in control in the working environment. Life Path 7s make good psychologists and psychiatrists—anything to do with the study of the mind. They have psychic ability, so they can excel at Numerology, astrology, and tarot card reading.
They are good public speakers. They don’t seek it out, it comes to them: When they speak, people want to listen to them. Other compatible occupations are those concerning the mysteries of nature: oceanography, astronomy, biology, and geology. I also like to say that the 7 has the Peter Pan syndrome. They are children for life in many ways. Conversely, when they are children, their parents often point out that they seem like old souls.
When a young 7 says something that seems beyond their years, don’t disregard it: 7s have tremendous wisdom and insight, so when a 7 child tells you something, listen carefully. They have strong intuition and may see something you don’t—and need to know. The 7 can be misunderstood because often this vibration has a quality that makes people feel judged in their presence. Others may feel the 7 is cold or aloof, but I can tell you that the reason they might seem to be holding back is that they are simply observing the world.source. Glynis McCants
7 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 1, 5, and 7
Compatible Numbers: 4
Challenge Numbers: 2, 3, 6, 8, and 9
The'8' Life Path: The Executive
The 8’s life lesson is to establish financial security. This is not to say that 8s are materialistic. It’s just that the Life Path 8 seeks the freedom that comes from being financially stable. They don’t like the fact that money can be elusive, so they find ways to keep the money coming in so they’ll never be without. Because of this, there are a lot of 8s who are millionaires—but who never spend a penny of it. They’d rather keep the money in the bank, where it’s safe. Then there is the other kind of 8: whenever they have money, they feel the need to spend it all. Usually 8s tend to be drawn to the finer things in life. They like quality and often have attractive possessions—a nice home, car, clothes, etc. These possessions are reminders that everything is under control financially.
The 8 has excellent executive ability, and this is also the politician’s number. It’s a power number, which means that while they want control, they do hope to use it to make a positive difference in the world. The 8 is the classic workaholic. Often, a woman who is married to an 8 Life Path will get upset and tell me her husband doesn’t care about her or their children. All he cares about is work. I can tell her exactly what he’s thinking: 'Hey, I’m trying to make things happen and achieve some goals so I can be a great provider.' The same goes for 8 Life Path women; they can also get too caught up in the business world. I tell my 8 Life Path clients to remember who it is they are working so hard for! They must take time to give the people in their lives enough personal attention. As I said above, the number 8 has a dual nature. This is evident, visually, from the numeral itself: one circle on top of the other (8). This number is sometimes interpreted as a symbol of degeneration and regeneration; when turned on its side, it becomes the symbol of infinity (').
It’s no surprise, then, that complete reversals are always a possibility with this number. This can be a good thing. If an 8 has made a big decision in work or a personal relationship, and halfway through realizes it’s the wrong one, it’s okay to do a 180 and go the other way. That’s what the 8 must learn to do instead of staying stubbornly stuck in a bad position. I often tell my 8 clients that they’re allowed to change their minds.
On the other hand, the reversals can go the opposite way. The 8 Life Paths will have some difficult times in life. They may experience sorrow and wind up in circumstances where they feel humiliated. An example of just this sort of reversal is Martha Stewart. She worked hard, amassed a great fortune, and then one bad move toppled it all. It’s no surprise that the bad decision was about money—it didn’t matter that she stood to lose just a fraction of her overall fortune; as an 8 Life Path she couldn’t bear the thought of financial loss, no matter how small.
Life Path 8s tend to be huge successes or major failures—often both in one lifetime. The 8s just need to keep their focus on any endeavour they pursue, and they will experience success. That said, 8s should remember it’s important to stop and smell the roses. It is common for an 8 Life Path to be misinterpreted by others. To avoid this, the 8 must learn to be more tactful. They tend to tell the truth about what they’re thinking, neglecting to edit their remarks for the larger audience. Often they’ll say something and have the other person respond with shock at how hurtful the remark was. At that point it’s the 8’s turn to be stunned: All they did was tell the truth. This is a very black-and-white vibration, with little room for gray areas. What I remind the 8 is that very few of us can handle the cold, harsh truth without at least a gentle preamble. It’s an art form that every Life Path should perfect, especially the 8. You can still say what you feel, just be careful how you say it.
The 8 Life Path considers strife and struggle to be a normal part of life, but the one thing an 8 cannot get over is infidelity. If a partner cheats on an 8, it is best for the 8 to let that person go. It would take a supernatural effort for the 8 to get over it. Even if they stay with the partner, the 8 will neverreally be able to forgive them. The 8 Life Path does not have much tolerance for people who feel sorry for themselves. An 8 who sees someone suffer will likely say, 'Look, I’m sorry that happened to you. Now get up.' This is ironic, since 8s often see themselves as a victim. That’s because 8 Life Paths don’t get away with much in this world. If an 8 Life Path were driving five miles per hour over the speed limit and another Life Path was going twice that, the 8 would get the ticket. It’s part of the reality of being an 8. The key is getting through it without taking on a 'woe is me' attitude. I recommend humour to my clients. Learn to laugh at life! Rent a funny movie and surround yourself with amusing people. Even listening to music that makes you happy can help you relax and let go—disco, jazz, whatever sets you free. Remember, these hardships are usually temporary. Life is not as overwhelming as you think. Dwelling on the negative, especially if you’re an 8, can lead to a deep depression. I want to keep you healthy, so I encourage you to learn to laugh as much as possible.
A good piece of news is that 8s are late bloomers. If you’re an 8 Life Path and you’re thinking, Gosh, I wonder if I’m too old to do what I want to do, I’m here to say you are never too old. As long as you’re on this planet, you can make your dreams come true. I do caution 8s about their health. It is not hard for them to get hurt,so they must be on the alert when driving and playing sports. Paying attention to the moment can make all the difference—I think many 8s get so caught up in their work and dreams that they don’t always pay attention to the simple things that cause physical stress and trouble.
Occupations that suit the 8 include banker, stock market trader, accountant, office manager, and engineer. This Life Path also makes good corporate lawyers or judges. Many 8s go into the field of wedding planning, interior decorating and/or running non-profit organizations. They are often physically beautiful, so modelling and acting are common career pursuits as well. Big business is a natural for the 8, like running a network or a major publishing company. If the Life Path 8 has a 3, 6 or 9 in their birth numbers, then their professions may lean toward the creative arts, perhaps in areas of live performance. Now, if you have a dream that is very different than what I’ve listed here, go for it! This is your life and you need to seize the moment. Keep in mind that 'life is not a dress rehearsal.' Today is a gift. As an 8 you are always planning for the future. The future may never come! Today is what you’ve got; embrace it. source. Glynis McCants
8 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 2, 4, and 8
Compatible Numbers: 6
Challenge Numbers: 3, 7, and 9
Neutral Numbers: 1 and 5
The'9' Life Path: The Humanitarian
The 9 is the most evolved number in Numerology, and is considered one of the strongest of all the Vibrations because it contains the qualities of all the other numbers. When a 9 has a strong spiritual base, they are a wonderful source of light in the world. Indeed, there is a selfless quality to the 9. It’s also the highest of the single vibrations and is ruled by determination. This Life Path has a strong inclination to follow something believed in, and they will pursue it with tremendous ambition and drive. As a result, there will always be people who are jealous and resentful of the 9. I suggest that the 9s follow the old adage: 'Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.'
The 9 needs to be aware of those trying to sabotage their plans, and make an effort to put this kind of person at ease. Some people will see you as condescending and you need to be aware of this fact before you speak. It is really upsetting to the 9 Life Path to work hard for something and then it doesn’t come to fruition. The 9s have an authentic regard for humanity, so their goals usually serve others well. When 9s fail, they feel they’ve failed the world. One of the strongest characteristics of 9 Life Paths is that they often have issues with their original family. They may feel unloved or abandoned by their mother or father, or they may feel completely responsible for their parents. Either way, the 9’s attachment to her original family is hard to give up.
When they marry and start their own family, 9s want nothing less than to be the 'perfect parent.' Of course there is no such thing as a perfect parent— or a perfect child. Children come through us, but we do not own them. They are here to teach us something, and we are here to teach them. I say 9s need to go easy on themselves and not take life so hard, lest they feel like failures when something goes wrong with their kids—which we all know will happen at some point or another.
When it comes to the family, the 9 cannot handle interference. If having trouble with their partners, they don’t want their parents or siblings to get involved. The 9 feels capable of resolving the situation—and since the 9 is the number of completion, that’s probably right. The answers come to 9 Life Paths when they engage their spiritual side and listen to the inner voice. The 9 Life Paths do so much and take such good care of everybody’s business that when they are in trouble, people don’t even notice. People look at a 9 and think: Oh, he’s so strong, he doesn’t need my help. I always tell 9s to let their guards down a bit more, to ask for a hug or a kiss when they need one. They’re not a Life Path whose needs are easily read by others—they have to ask.
The 9s don’t need to be the centre of attention, but people put them there anyway. If a 9 Vibration is standing in a department store, everyone assumes that person works there. If a 9 walks into a classroom, people ask, 'Are you the teacher?' They just assume the 9 is in charge, and that’s why the 9 should be in charge—because 9s don’t abuse the privilege. They are not rude to those who are under their authority. No matter what they set their minds on, or whether they’ve ever done it before, the 9 will manage to pull it off. Things just seem to work out for the 9. Ironically, 9 Life Paths are the only ones who don’t see this! They’re very hard on themselves, and even if they do a good job, they will beat themselves up if it wasn’t perfect. I think 9s need to lighten up and forgive themselves for being human.
There is, on the other hand, a really intimidating quality to the 9. Sometimes people will be jealous of or competitive with the 9, yet the 9s compete with no one. They are simply doing the best they can. I believe it’s actually the 9’s job to put others at ease. It’s as simple as the 9 remembering to say, 'Hey, I really like your haircut,' or,'Gee, what a nice suit.' These simple words will disarm people who would otherwise see the 9 as an enemy. The 9 Life Path is often accused of being patronizing. They may not think that they know everything, but others view them as feeling that way. This breeds resentment and competition in those around the 9 vibration. It’s a hard lesson to learn, but 9s must understand that on some subconscious level people can feel the 9 is on a higher vibration. The 9 Life Paths must remind themselves, 'Forgive them, for they know not what they do.' If a 9 does something good, people follow. If a 9 does something bad, people also follow. They make amazing teachers, school counsellors, and therapists.
They’re really good with children, and children tend to love them. They’re excellent doctors, nurses, and social workers. They do well in creative fields as lecturers, artists, illustrators, and writers, and perform as musicians and actors. My most important piece of advice for 9 Life Paths is to take care not to live in the past. When they get into the moment, they can make a positive difference inthis world—and that, after all, is what the 9 is here to do. source. Glynis McCants
9 VIBRATION: RELATIONSHIPS
Natural Match Numbers: 3, 6, and 9
Compatible Numbers: 1, 2, and 5
Challenge Numbers: 4, 7, and 8
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